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(Friebel) Meyer, Carrol |
Medical Transcriber - part time Widowed 5 Children, 10 grandchildren 9 Great grand children Flower garden, reading |
Soon after graduation on October 2, 1954, I married Lee Meyer, I had been engaged to Lee during my senior year in high school and was looking forward to spending our future together. I was fortunate to be a Mom and homemaker for the first 13 years of our marriage and enjoyed being home with our family. I had time to garden and sew, and our home was always busy revolving around family life with 5 children and school activities. It finally seemed like a good time to try going out into the work force to see if I recalled any of the secretarial skills I had studied in school. I worked in the Hales Corners area in several starter jobs and finally in a bank which I thoroughly enjoyed. Lee had gone into police work and after several years on the Muskego Police Department he applied for a job with the Wisconsin Department of Justice with the stipulation that he could choose a location farther north as he was a hunter and fisherman and always enjoyed the beauty of the north woods and thought it would be a good place to continue to raise our family. We liked the Appleton area and as we like small towns and the country we moved to New London. The children seemed to adapt to the change and for a while we really were back basically to family activities as we left relatives and friends behind. We bought a house in town and an old farm consisting of approximately 81 acres in the country. We spent weekends in the country exploring the land and grilling out. Eventually creating a pretty large garden. It was fun to be drawn close together again. Needless to say we did make wonderful friends but our family always remained close. I stayed home again with the family for about a year and then went to work at the hospital in New London as a unit clerk and approximately a year later moved to the medical record department where I became a medical transcriptionist which I loved. Many times Mrs. Sandstrom would pop into my mind and I knew she would have been happy to see me using some of the skills that she had taught. Four years after our move north we had a home built on our land in the country. We all loved living out there but it seemed that all too soon our family was starting to leave home, going off to school, or getting married. It was hard being away from relatives and old friends and we were always glad when they came up to spend some time with us. We did big 4th of July cookouts with a hayride down country roads for a lot of years and by then we had grandchildren which made them even more fun. Through the years our family was blessed with good health and we had much to be thankful for. Lee was eligible for retirement from the Department of Justice with the years that he had accrued in Muskego and it seemed like a good time to move on to a new venture. Over the years we had dreamed of one day owning and operation a supper club or restaurant and had spent a good deal of time with friends who were in the business trying to learn as much as possible. This seemed a good opportunity and I left the hospital and Lee and I bought a supper club called "Lee's". It was a wonderful experience even though we both agreed we had never worked so hard in our lives. We met a lot of wonderful people who were added to our list of friends and learned a lot. Our children worked with us whenever they were free along with their spouses and oujr youngest daughter and oldest son were actually part of our work force. The grandchildren were quite young at that time and they referred to the restaurant as "the party". We had some pretty special family Christmas celebrations there. I will always appreciate the work staff and owners when I go out to eat knowing what a difficult job they do to please the customer. After returning to a more normal life style where 8 hour work days seemed like a breeze I returned to the transcription position and Lee went to several supervisory positions because he felt he was too young to retire. We eventually sold the house and some of the land in the country as suddenly, with the children moving on, the house was just too large for us as our family of 7 became 3 and we then returned to New London. I tried over and over to do this biography and couldn't think of a thing of interest but in looking back I saw a blur of happiness and years passing just too quickly. After our youngest daughter married we had a number of years on our own enjoying the children and grandchildren. I have 10 grandchildren and 9 great-grandchildren. It is absolutely wonderful. In 2001 I lost the very special man in my life and 5 years later our oldest son. I have wonderful memories but still many tears. I continued to work and actually just retired on July 31,2009. I finished my first week of retirement (which seems like a vacation) and I am hoping the remainder will be as pleasant. I am looking forward to time being spent with my family, (I am back to living in the country next to my daughter on the land we originally purchased up here, one of my very favorite spots) I love flower gardening and will try to get better at that. I have many good friends to enjoy, like to read, cook and loads of other things that I have not taken the time to do in many years. |